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Terminology and Pronouns. Our Voices.

The power of language to shape our understanding of people and to influence the way we see the world is indisputable. Just as words can be used to denigrate or demean, they can also be used to show respect and recognition. As our language and terminology evolves over time, though, the difference between the two may not always be clear. Have a look at the vocabulary and etiquette resources in this guide for some up-to-date suggestions on how to communicate respectfully with (and about) gender diverse individuals.

Pronouns and Etiquette

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A guide to help you decide whether or not a particular question is appropriate to ask a transgender person in your life.

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Includes terms to use, terms to avoid, and other etiquette suggestions.

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Tips to help one become a better ally to trans people by respecting individual preference when it comes to pronouns and terminology.

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Guidelines for writing about trans people that includes modern language on matters pertaining to gender diversity.

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Because sometimes the way we speak doesn't quite match who we really are. Gender-affirming verbal communication.

Washroom Signage

In 2017, new washroom signage was installed at City Hall, Vancouver Public Library locations, and other City of Vancouver buildings. All washrooms now include the language, “Trans People Welcome.” To find out more about how and why this change occurred, check out the resources below.

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Read about what Vancouver is doing to implement transgender-inclusive policies throughout the city and links to community resources. 

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Provides factual answers to the general public's FAQs on the topic of bathroom access, including questions about safety.

Gender-Neutral Pronouns in French

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